They both died when I was in my teens, but I do remember them of course. I was born in Philadelphia, so I remember them being babysitters when my mom and dad would go out. One night I remember that it was snowing and my parent's specifically asking me and telling my grandparents not to let me go out in the snow! I have no idea why they would have said this, maybe I had a cold or something, I just remember that my grandparents completely ignored these instructions and we went out and played in the snow! Once we moved to NY, my grandparents would frequently visit and we would visit Philadelphia. However, I do not remember much about any other relatives. I have no idea why we were not involved with other aunts and uncles, maybe my parents were and I just don't remember. It was quite exciting then to meet my grandfather's brother's son! Below is a picture of a my grandfather, Ambrose on the right, Emma (grandmother) then Kay and Jerome ( Ambroses' brother) at my grandparents home.
Added bonus, when I met with Jack and his sisters, Peg had brought a picture of Ambrose's mother. I have never seen a picture of her. She was born In Ireland in 1863 to James Fleming and Bridget O'Hara. Her first husband was a James McCann, he died very young. It was with her 2nd husband John T Murray that she had 4 sons, Walter, Joseph, Ambrose, Jerome. You can see them listed here in the 1900 census in Scanton, Penna. Also listed are 4 other children of which we really cannot figure out the connection.
Below is the picture of my great-grandmother, Mary, with 3 of her grandchildren and a neighbor. According to my cousins, Kay and Peg, she was quite stern and you learned to mind Grandmother Murray!
Sadly, I did not connect with Jack Murray until after my father passed away. My Dad would have been so excited to meet up with one of his relatives, that I am sure he knew when he was young. They would have had so much fun talking about the past! My Dad was proud of what I had found out already, but this really would have put him over the top.